Matthew 19:5 says in the New King James Version (NKJV)
5 “and said, For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh”
One guy that makes his debut in my newest book The Single Woman Chronicles: God, Men and You; is the Momma’s Boy. Now he doesn’t leave home or his momma and he isn’t going to make any serious commitment if momma doesn’t approve. Watch out for him….
You see marriage isn’t a game; it’s a serious matter. It’s not something you just do because it’s Tuesday and you’re lonely. You are joined to this person for the rest of your life! Don’t you want to be joined to the right person? Don’t you want your for better or worse; in sickness and health? The wrong man doesn’t care about that stuff; he is out for whatever he can get.
Do your work and avoid the wrong guy; the one that calls you for bootie calls, the ones who calls for you to text him dirty pictures, the one who calls when he wants you to treat him to dinner, the one who tears you down, the one who beats you down, the one who tells you that you’re nothing and no one else wants you! Avoid these grown boys like the plague!
Doing your work requires you to look within yourself and see what doesn’t belong or what could use some improvement.
6. Childhood Issues
7. Daddy Issues
I could keep going but I think you got the picture. Your husband the man who will be your husband isn’t going anywhere! Do your work! Prepare yourself to be one with your husband. Pray that he will be doing his work as well; because he has to be complete and free from his issues too..