Everyone is always saying that change is good; would you agree? As a single woman it took me awhile to come to change my ways; you see I didn’t think anything was wrong with me or how I was living!
I been to church when I was younger but I never really got into the words in the bible and no one took the time to really tell me or show me what it meant to live by his word!
Sleeping around and thinking you were in relationships can seem like fun when you don’t know anything else and especially when you don’t love yourself; what else is there?
What made me wake up one day and decide to change how I was living was a few things:
1. Went back to church found out that God loves me uncondiontionally.
2. I began to love myself and wanted his best for my life.
3. I was a single mom and I had to begin to set an example for my kids; especially my daughter.
In my book The Single Woman Chronicles I shared that I had never been in a committed loving real relationship before and many may not believe it; but how can you be in a relationship with grown boys who don’t love themselves, don’t respect themselves, don’t want more in life and will do everything in their power to keep you down in the gutter with them?
So here I am a changed woman! Still single but loving my singleness! If I have to tell it all to help another single moms or single women get out of that level of darkness; then so be it… There is light at the end of the tunnel; you just have to keep walking towards it….